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Travel to achieve a more balanced life

Published on March 15, 2019 by Gattaldo

As we age, one thing we often come to terms with is how fast time passes. The older we get, the more life seems to whizz past. The things which make us happy can vary according to who we are and our experience of life. There's our relationships with family and friends and there's our connection with our own selves. Both are important because we're social animals and it's our nature to relate to others, but we can't do that well unless we're secure in ourselves.

Cuba's flamboyant tree with bright red leaves on the beach

Balance - The flame tree in Cuba

We need to be aware of what makes us get out of bed in the morning and there may be various things that we live for. It may be our job, our family or whatever makes us feel needed that keeps us alive. This is why many find themselves at a loss when their children leave or when they retire from a job they've given their everything to.

Cuban facade propped up with wooden structure

What keeps us going - Cuban facade propped up with wooden structure

One very clever (and older) friend and mentor of mine has always reminded me that we need to put our eggs in more than one basket. Just because we're happy in our relationship or with our job does not mean that we don't also need to balance that with other interests and friends. We also need to be comfortable with indulging those interests.

Travel can be one of these interests. It opens our mind to realities other than our own. It's also an opportunity to meet people who're not within our limited social bubble. It introduces us to new food, to new her/histories, other philosophies, other ways of living.

Car in garage in Cuba

Our journey through life - Car at mechanic in Cuba

The more divergent our destination is from what we know, the more we'll discover about human nature and about ourselves. It's vital that we question our convictions, our filter bubble. My partner and I ventured to Cuba a couple of years ago. There were many things in which Cuban way of life would fall short of our way of life but from certain points of view, they seem to have got it right.

I come from a marketing background (I'm a freelance Creative) and advertising is an integral part of my life, I suppose to all of us in the Western World. We take the choice of products or, as many like to call them, lifestyles for granted. After a few hours in Cuba, I realised I hadn't seen any product advertisements cluttering my vista (if you don't count the odd propaganda billboard). It felt strangely liberating. It presented me with a reality so utterly different to ours and I could see both its positive and negative sides. It's a much deeper demarcation than what it sounds like here. My journey there was more than a vacation. Like many travels it forced me to challenge my preconceptions.

As you've gathered, travel is one of those things that make me happy. It's not just the fact it helps me unwind. It helps me question my established viewpoints, therefore hopefully making me a more balanced individual.

Couple looking at mobile in Cuba

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Meet The Author
I’m a freelance creative, living in London. Together with my partner Michael, we travel as often as we can. We love houses with character and engaging history. Having done up two old houses on the island of Malta that need constant love and attention, gives us the perfect opportunity to visit often.
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